¿Dejaría a mi pareja? Influencia de la gravedad de la transgresión, la satisfacción y el compromiso en la toma de decisión

  1. Marta Garrido-Macías 1
  2. Inmaculada Valor-Segura 1
  3. Francisca Expósito 1
  1. 1 Departamento de Psicología Social, Facultad de Psicología, Universidad de Granada, España
Revista:
Psychosocial Intervention

ISSN: 1132-0559

Any de publicació: 2017

Volum: 26

Número: 2

Pàgines: 111-116

Tipus: Article

DOI: 10.1016/J.PSI.2016.12.001 DIALNET GOOGLE SCHOLAR lock_openAccés obert editor

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Objectius de Desenvolupament Sostenible

Resum

Leaving a relationship is one of the most difficult decisions that people have to make at some point in their life. This research aims to contribute to understanding the process involved in this decision by analyzing 2 studies. The first one included 265 participants from general population and the principal aim was to examine different types of transgressions (conflicts) that would lead people to leave a relationship, as well as severity and gender differences in this transgressions. The second one (90 participants from general population) analyzed the influence of the severity of the transgression, the satisfaction and commitment in the probability of leaving the relationship. Results from the first study showed that infidelity is the most serious transgression and lying the least serious one. Moreover, women perceive the transgressions as more severe than men. The second study proved that commitment mediated the connection between satisfaction and probability to leave the relationship only in the less serious transgression. Results highlight the relevance that severity of the transgression, commitment and satisfaction have in the decision to leave a relationship or to stay in it.

Informació de finançament

Esta investigación fue subvencionada por el plan propio de la Universidad de Granada a través de una Beca de Iniciación a la Investigación para Estudiantes de Másteres Oficiales (BOJA n.º 250 de 23 de diciembre de 2014), así como por el Ministerio de Educación, Ciencia y Deporte de España, a través de una Beca de Formación del Profesorado Universitario (FPU14/02905).

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